Afraid to bring up sensitive topics with your OBGYN? Why it’s worth mentioning

We’ve all been there — debating whether to ask what might sound like a stupid question.  Should I ask? Is this dumb? What will they think of me? 

It’s bad enough when it’s about minor things like clarifying work assignments or asking for directions. It can be even harder when you’re thinking about asking a personal question in your OBGYN’s office. Pretty daunting, huh? Who wants to bring up those touchy subjects like sex, birth control, periods and anatomy? We should have learned this stuff in junior high, right?

What you might think is a stupid question or a too-sensitive topic is often one that many women have — and one we’ve almost certainly heard before.

Well, never fear. As women’s health providers, we know how hard it can be just to make that appointment, whether it’s for your annual wellness exam or a personal health concern, and to bare yourself — literally and figuratively — to someone you might have just met. 

That’s why we do our very best to put you at ease as soon as we meet. To tell you the truth, our job is not just to do your pap smear and breast exam, it’s to get to know you better so we can take the very best care of you. And if we don’t know you and what you’re worried about, we can’t do the very best for you.

What you might think is a stupid question or a too-sensitive topic is often one that many women have — and one we’ve almost certainly heard before. Things like “How does my birth control work?” “When am I fertile?” “What is this bump?” “Do I look normal?” 

These questions, and many more, are right up our alley and we’re happy to discuss them with you in an honest and non-judgmental way. Sometimes it helps to bring a list of questions or concerns with you to your appointment. Not only does it jog your memory, it might make asking the sensitive questions a little easier.

Your OBGYN provider is a crucial source for all your healthcare needs. Got questions? Find an OBGYN near you.